Online Dating: Strategies That Set You Up for Success

  Nowadays, when looking for a partner (be it for play, casual dating, or a long-term relationship), most of us turn to online dating. For a lot of people, online dating can seem a lot like navigating a minefield. Coupled with high chances for misunderstandings and rejection, the experience can be disappointing and lead to disillusionment if you approach it with the wrong mindset. Given that the topic of online dating is a broad and important one, Dr. Valeria and I decided to create a whole series of podcast episodes dedicated to helping you become the master of online dating. In Episode 11 of the Get Sex Smart podcast, we discuss how to get a good head start in online dating (or dating in general) as well as share some personal dating stories and experiences. In this [...]

By | 2018-09-17T15:30:54+00:00 September 19th, 2018|Podcast|0 Comments

When Do I Ask Her Out?

    You know the feeling, right? There’s someone totally amazing in your life and you’d really like to take them out, but your fear is holding you back and you wonder - when is the right moment to ask them? If you don't want to get stuck on this crucial first step, check out this week's video on my Youtube channel, Ask Sex Coach Sarah, where I address this question:     So before I cut to the chase I just want to say - I get it. Really. It is some scary shit to ask someone out. It means revealing your cards, it means showing your interest, and it opens up the possibility of yet another rejection. But it's important to keep in mind that, essentially, no matter what you do when it comes [...]

By | 2018-09-16T23:03:24+00:00 September 17th, 2018|Youtube|0 Comments

Does Size Really Matter? The Penis Episode

In my practice as a sex coach, I find that one of the most common insecurities my penis-owning clients struggle with is that connected to their penis size. They feel inadequate and worry their size will prevent them from satisfying their partners (often erroneously assuming that their perfectly normal penis is below-average in size). In Episode 9 of the Get Sex Smart podcast, Dr. Valeria and I tackle the topic head on (pun intended) and give the definitive and honest answer to the question of whether penis size* really matters. We also share some fun and interesting facts about the penis as well as actual statistics on penis size; the ways in which penis size does (and doesn't) affect women's pleasure and orgasms; dig deeper in an attempt to uncover the roots of our cultural obsession with [...]

By | 2018-09-10T15:06:57+00:00 September 12th, 2018|Podcast|0 Comments

Where Do Other Guys Meet Girls?

    I set out to answer this question over on my Youtube channel last week:   I’d like to take some time to dive a little deeper, though, because isn’t big everywhere, and, I mean, what if you went to and didn’t find any group that captured your interest? When seeking out social spaces to meet people, it is crucial to first ask yourself this:   What do I actually like doing?   My point is that, if you start meeting new people in social spaces that you actually, genuinely, really like (regardless of whether a date results or not) then you give yourself a massive assist by taking the pressure off. This frees you up to enjoy yourself regardless of outcome (and outcome independence is hands down THE MOST IMPORTANT [...]

By | 2018-09-16T22:58:52+00:00 September 10th, 2018|Youtube|0 Comments

Having Fun With Sex Toys: What You Need to Know

Sex toys come in all types, shapes and sizes (and colours!) to fit a wide range of tastes and needs. With their growing variety and accessibility, they can be a great tool for spicing things up in the bedroom and by offering new sensations they have the potential to vastly change and improve our experiences. However, despite their ever growing popularity and the increasing openness with which we talk about them, you may still be left with many questions unanswered. Are you exploring the world of sex toys for the first time and feeling intimidated? Perhaps you find the very variety of sex toys overwhelming and have trouble deciding what would work best for you? Or maybe you are hesitant about adding them to your repertoire and fear they might become a replacement for you or your partners? Finally, [...]

By | 2018-09-05T19:20:45+00:00 September 5th, 2018|Podcast|0 Comments